Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Not feelin' the love

Do you ever feel like you are more a burden to people than a joy to have around? Or that you are only wanted around when it's convenient for the other person?

Or how about when you really need help with something and no one offers? And then when you ask, they hesitantly help, making you feel terrible for needing help in the first place.

How about when you just need a shoulder to cry on, or a hug, and you are still left crying yourself to sleep at night?


Paper Propaganda said...

Yes, i do feel that way. Sadly, about 75% of the time. My dad, is always there for me for emotional support, but he's also three hours away. I can be your virtual shoulder, and i can virtually help you. But you do matter, just so you know. :) i'm sending you hugs!

Melissa said...

Ironically, yes! It sucks to find our your friends and family aren't quite the people you hoped they were, huh?

Jess said...

I've felt that way lots of's one reason that Andy and I only truly depend on each other. If someone winds up being able to help, it's a blessing...but we don't count on it.

Kat said...

Many times unfortunately. I hope you get out of the funk and someone lends you a shoulder to cry on or offers you help.

We're here if you need to vent/rant/bitch/moan :)

Rat In A Cage said...

That sounds like the perfect Christmas Card.

It really is the most wonderful time of the year.

Well, I haven't been here in a while & don't know what's going on, but I hope you find something to cheer you up soon.

Look on the bright side. Life flies by quickly, and you'll be dead before you know it & it won't hurt any more then. That's how I cope.

dangergirl said...

Feels like you were at my house last night. Sometimes other people suck - that's how I get through feeling overwhelmed, taken for granted, forgotten about and completely overlooked.

Luckily it isn't that way all the time now. There are people that do see and hear me.

I see and hear you.

I have no idea if that helped but please know you are not alone.


Sassy said...

YES. Exactly. YES.
I hate that you are feeling this way. I'm sending you big big hugs (just don't mind the boobs..they kind of get in the way sometimes...).

mackey said...

I am hearing you loud & clear sister.

Melisa said...

Oh Snarky...

BIG HUGS coming your way!!

And yes, I have felt that before. Sux. I hope things get better.