More on "The Scare"

I still cannot believe my son was a Code Adam. I hope this never happens again.

I posted that Grandma & Grandpa were mad at him, but in reality, they were hurt, upset and sick at the thought of what could have happened. When I called Mike at work to tell him what had happened, he didn't say much. He did talk with Braeden yesterday, and asked him what happened. Braeden just said he was looking for Grandpa. He doesn't understand what truly happened. In his 4 year old mind, he wanted to go by Grandpa, went to look for him, and got mixed up and ended up a couple departments over.

We are going to have to make some changes. Braeden is going to have to either ride in the cart, or wear a safety harness/leash. I can't think of any other way for right now until he learns to listen and obey.

That's the thing that is the tough part - I know he is only 4, but when will he do as he is told? It's always "I just...." or "I don't...." or "No". He's given options and sometimes even that isn't good enough for him. If it's not his idea from the get go - or he just doesn't feel like doing as you asked, he gives us a hard time, or spouts an attitude. For heaven's sake - he's four! Where is this attitude coming from?

Don't get me wrong. He does have his good days, and his bad days. He's not a monster all the time. Sometimes it feels that way, but I know there are parents out there dealing with much worse.

I'm thankful for what I have. Even with the trying days, I'm still thankful.